Bla! Blaa!! Blaaaa!!!

This world is a very funny place. Life indeed is funny.

I sit at work and think of my life.. of what I have been through up to this point. I am indeed grateful. I have a lot to complain about but then I realize there are so many people going through worse things in this life that all i say is Thank you Lord.

Things seem to be going by so fast. I guess that is what life and growing up is all about. Looking back to when my sister and I use to go out together and pretend to be friends instead of sisters because we are nothing alike.. We did it for the the fun of it I think.

Or when I slapped my immediate younger brother for some reason I don't remember and he said he saw a vision to kill me.Oh my God, I was scared out of my life.. My mom locked me in my room.. Looking back, I thought it was the funniest thing ever.

Between, I would never forget the day my parents traveled out of town which was quite unusual. Sooo this dude that claimed he liked me came to pick me up because I told him i was hungry. He took me to sweet sensation bought food for my sister and I. After that, he wanted us to chill inside his car alone.. Then o.. I think I was less than 15 then or so.. Not so sure.. Hmm, i trust my sister, when she realized I came back with food, she just came to knock on the window of the car, that i needed to come in and my mom was back.. All was a lie.. we just wanted free food.

That was then though, We are all grown  now

Note from by Internship Supervisor <3

There are so many things going through my head.Which is really normal for me. I sit, laugh, joke and make fun of people while so many things go through my head. Thank God for the smile He keeps putting on my face.

When I grow up, I WILL write a book about Life in the perspective at which I grew up. And I want to make an impact in the society and make a difference in the lives of so many.. God willing and sparing my life.

Some years from now, what I have been thinking about is... going to china on vacation.. I mean when i get a job after grad.. which is less than a month from now. I want to treat my mom to China.. It's going to be we the girls.. my sis, mom and I.

I know my brothers would almost kill themselves when it comes to pass.. but too bad they are not women.

I dream big. That is who I am. I take advantages of every opportunity i have. Life indeed is too short... more so if the world is flat, why not make it your playing ground.


Bla!! Blaa!! Blaaa!!!

I have to get back to work. :)

Why Are You Married?

I still don't understand why married men cheat or rather have kids outside.... I mean i still don't get the logic behind it... You have a beautiful wife even if she's not beautiful il assume your love was blind... and wonderful children.

You're successful or better still comfortable... with all of that, why would some men have kids outside knowing on the long run he would be in for a big trouble.. Well he may not care if his wife finds out or he might, and claim it was a mistake and all... But i still don't get that...

You date a lady, you love her, you propose saying you want to spend the rest of your life with her.. and along the line.. I'll assume the love grows sour and you decide to keep a concubine outside. Then she begins to raise a child for you.

I wonder if these men ever think..How do they expect their wives to react to the situation?  once a man starts having kids outside.. thats just the height of betrayal, deception, double dealing, treason, let-down, perfidy, and the list goes on.

 Let us imagine if the tables were turned around.. if the men where in the women's shoes? How would they react?

How would a man feel if he realizes his wife is living a double life.. Having another husband illegally outside and claiming she works in another state, travels probably Mondays to Wednesdays for the supposed job and claims she works from home on Thursday and Friday.. How would the man feel? Or if the child the husband was raising wasn't his.. How would he react?

It's pretty annoying that some men think they are super smart.. Only if they knew we women could be smarter... we just decide not to.

It is not as if I've been married before or whatever but...this issue just disturbs me.. because I still don't get
Not like i support it, but i get the idea that married men sleep around once in a while because they say and i quote "You don't want to keep eating the same soup all the time" But Duhh, if you dint want to be eating the same soup or whatever why are you married?

I don't think some men realize that women have the same right as they do in a marriage.. A woman can also decide to mess around and cheat the same way the husband does.. she just chooses not, to protect her dignity and self image.

I'm a very curious human and i enjoy researching about the weirdest things.. I researched about marriage and affair and found 10 reasons why men cheat...I'll blog about it later. After reading, it still dint give enough reason for a married man to cheat on his wife... Sincerely, I really wouldn't care if my husband cheats.. as long as I do not find out because once i do.. its a wrap.

So imagine if you're just dating this dude and he constantly cheats and constantly begs you back.. And you been a fool keeps taking him back hoping he would change.. Dang, some ladies sha! My mom usually says "Do not manage in any relationship because if you do at this young age what would you do when you get married?" Think about it.

Someone Like You

"I heard that you're settled down,

That you found a girl and you're married now,

I heard that your dreams came true,

Guess she gave you the things I didn't give you,

Old friend, why are you so shy?

It ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light,

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,

But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,

I had hoped you'd see my face,

And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Never mind, I'll find someone like you,

I wish nothing but the best for you, too,

Don't forget me I beg,

I remember you said,

Sometimes it lasts in love, But sometimes it hurts instead,

You know how time flies,

Only yesterday was the time of our lives,

We were born and raised in a summer haze, 

Bound by the surprise of our glory days,

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,

But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,

I had hoped you'd see my face,

And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Nothing compares,

No worries or cares,

Regrets and mistakes, they're memories made,

Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind, I'll find someone like you,

I wish nothing but the best for you, too,

Don't forget me I beg,

I remember you said,

Sometimes it lasts in love, But sometimes it hurts instead."

--- Adele

I Just recently fell in love with Adele and my favorite song of hers is "Someone Like You." 

Hmmm, where do I start from? I mean where do I start to explain the deep pain and emptiness from an old flame that never lasted....This song explains it all. We can all agree that sometimes we feel a loss and we sometimes never get it back and sometimes get more than we expect.

I think most times, most people has had "Someone like you" in their life. And I can just imagine, listening to this song will definitely bring back memories and old hurts which makes you realize how much love means and how memories have the strongest holds on our heart strings. 

A totally amazing song, though it is not my kind of music. "Someone Like You" is very emotional and you can hear the emotion in Adele's voice, making the song sound very authentic.

 Her vocal is phenomenal.

"Men Lie, Women Lie"

I know common sense isn't common, but we could all agree that a man will think women cheat or lie more because thats's who they deal with.On the other hand, women have relationships with men so of course a woman will think men also cheat and lie more than women.

Everyone does the same thing... Men cheat and lie, so do women.

If you ask me, it really doesn't matter who does what... We always just need someone to point a finger at obviously.

I'm by far not the most perfect person in the world, but I'm just trying to live a life that I won't regret. A life that when I have my twins :D, I would be proud to tell them about my childhood, teenage and adult life affair.

So, if you can't be honest with your partner, friends, or whoever, then you can't be honest with yourself. Lies build up and they only lead to dead ends.. Besides, it take a lot to keep up with them.

I mean, I know this babe who lies like an illterate.. OMG, I mean she lies on top of her her H factor. I have literally concluded that she is either a fool or has taken us for fools... It so bad that I know she is in a world of her own.

....Just tell the truth, they say the truth shall set you free..Easier said than done? I know. But I know (I don't want to use the word Learned) in relationships, "Communications is key" it is a two-way thing between the communicator and the receiver.

 And I totally understan we just have to lie sometimes.. but then, what's the benefit? they say there is nothing hidden under the sun :D (Too much  nigerian movies)

Remember, when you're honest, you dont need so much energy to keep up with them.

I dream of You & I

When I lay on my bed and close my eyes,

My thoughts for you keep running in my heart,

I Long for you.

It was just you and I

We were walking hand in hand,

It was so windy that it began to rain,

Thunder struck, I woke up,

Then I realized it was only a dream

I had a dream,

We were laying on the grass,

Watching the clouds, counting the stars,

You kissed me, till I woke up,

It was only a dream. 

I swear, I hear your voice inside my head,

I can imagine you and I together,

I know it will happen,

I know it is true.

When I dream of you,

I find myself close to your arms,

You are so near to me in my soul.

I had a dream about you,

We were sitting at the park,

Talking about our future,

You beside me and the twins in the middle,

It felt so pure

I had a dream about you,

The cloud was covering the sun,

We both knew what the time was.

But either of was cared to leave

It was all a Dream

I long to meet you